It is interesting how those three words have been used over the years to judge the eligibility of a potential spouse. Unfortunately, some individuals only have these three characteristics and nothing else to offer! Some heartbreaks and even divorces could have been avoided if it was not just the externals that the partners were focused on. So, when I was in the dating scene, I preferred to chat with people first because I did not want to miss out of a great relationship just because a potential did not look the pact.  One incident comes to mind. A female friend of mine introduced me to this guy. Let us…