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So,I confessed…
Confessions of infidelity come in different forms and types. Social media has also made some confessions that were meant to be private to become public. Although one would expect that before a confession goes public, the individuals involved would have known already. But there are circumstances where before the culprit has the chance to make a confession, the events have been made public. This of course makes the confession or reconciliation process to be more arduous. But no matter how the confession comes out, at one point or the other, we must come to deal with the aftermaths of a Confession. It is important to respond to a confession appropriately…
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Making the Confession
Her husband had taken his bath. She watched him dress up and when he attempted to leave, she reminded him that their Pastor had promised to visit He acknowledged her but promised to be back as soon as possible. He had barely left the house when the doorbell rang. She welcomed their Pastor and began profusely apologizing for her husband’s absence but he interrupted her by saying she was actually the one he wanted to see. Her Pastor took his seat and then began to talk. She had had a few doubts about her husband but did not expect this was how she would be informed about a stepchild. She…
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Home or Zoo
In the course of waiting on the Lord, a lot of things happened that made me wonder why people, including Christians act or say the things they do. Being a matured single doesn’t make you any different from the seemingly young single girl out there. Sadly people think the pressure of age is enough reason for a matured single lady to target another woman’s husband or for crazy unsolicited advice to be offered by so called well-meaning people all in the bid to get her married. Some 13 years ago, some of us in my church were looking to invest in Agriculture so we were going to look at some…
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Knowing the “One”
The Valentine season is a few months gone and for some people, it marked the beginning of a new relationship while for some others, it probably identified cracks in a relationship they thought was developing. The unmistakable silence pre and post Valentine period has only gone on to prove that they have once again been unlucky in the game of love.No matter how many heartbreaks we sometimes go through, we still all hope that we will find true love and with every other relationship, the expectations of our heart spar as we wonder if we have come to the end of the search. There comes a time in the life…
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Marrying by “revelation”
This afternoon, many people were saddened as the news of the death of the Queen’s husband filled the air. Prince Phillip, the Duke of Edinburgh had been married to the Queen for over 70 years. All over the world as the news spread, comments have poured in, celebrating him and his commitment to the Queen. Being married to the same person for 73 years is no easy feat. There is no denying that having a good marriage takes a lot of hard work, the only issue is sometimes we do not want to put in the necessary effort and it is amazing how this our laziness can sometimes be even…
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Marrying by grace!
Yesterday being April Fool’s day, I was so tempted to upload this post but decided that since today is just the day after, most of us will still be in the mood. I did not fall for any April Fool’s joke n yesterday neither did I play any pranks however I must confess I had my share of laughter as I saw one joke after the other. There was this wedding invitation that a friend sent to one of my only ladies WhatsApp group yesterday. I knew it was fake immediately I saw it but still clicked on it. It reminded me of an encounter that I had although It…
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Telltale signs
Cheating cheating cheating . Just the thought of the word is repulsive in itself and could readily bring to the surface memories we prefer to forget .It could come in different forms as well as having several responses depending most times on how honest we choose to be . While some people are ready to prove that their boo is for them alone, and fight it with both physical and spiritual powers, there are some others who would prefer to let a false sense of peace reign and not talk about it . Adopting a head in the sand approach of an ostrich, others would rather lie to themselves and…
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My Lost Love
My name is Ogheneyoma and I have sent this story to Dishusbandmata. I hope it helps someone. In my second year in the university, I started dating a guy; he was my first boyfriend so I was taking baby steps with him while I tried to figure out the dating world. We made out a couple of times but no heavy stuff because I was 19 years and wasn’t ready to go all the way. In my third year we broke up because I got saved. He was of the opinion my getting saved didn’t change anything but for me it changed everything; I didn’t even want the occasional kisses…
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Me, a Side chick?
My dear sisters, With the way guys are doing these days, you gotta ask them: * Are you single single, Mad at her single or Long distance single? Ask him, * Are you married? * Is Someone married to you? * Are you married without your knowledge (lol)? * Is there someone that you are attached to in a married way? Are you engaged?… Did you propose to someone?… Is there someone hoping to be engaged to you? Are you unsure of the feelings you have for someone? Talk ooo Better ask o!!! Copied. …
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The Day After
Yesterday was a very significant day in the lives of most people. It was not just the adults but even many teenagers had looked forward to it. It was a day to celebrate love and ironically, another day that could be a painful reminder for some people. And sometimes this pain could have been caused by unmet expectations, as well as the discovery of betrayal/two-timing. Without much ado, yesterday probably defined most relationships. I know of someone who proposed yesterday and got an affirmative answer, I equally know of a husband whose principle of non-celebration of the day has always been that he did not believe in Valentine’s day as…
